Do we drive our men away?I think so,Hell.I know so.There are three scenarios.The men who cant stick to one woman(mainly psychological),the men who are in a forced or arranged marriage and the men who are not satisfied with their women.
Its mostly the third case that causes men to stray.The psycho man is more of the cynical type,knowing that its a man's world,they think that they can get away with anything.They may also have been born and bred in that atmosphere where one ain't enough and hence are not wired to be monogamous.
Men in an arranged marriage,typical of some cultures,really don't have a choice,for them straying is a consolaton that their life is not pathetic.
For the third case women play a big role.I will quote the Bible where it says,'Do unto others what you want them to do unto you.'Women should treat their men in a way that will make them stay,make them long to come home to you.Otherwise,you can guess..Don't get me wrong, not all men in this situations are cheats.There are men who genuinely love and cherish their women and don't stray,as the case may be,Love surpasses all and 'For better For worse' is not just for married couples.But there are other men who can't be helped no matter how nice you get.Just ditch them.
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