Cyber ***

I say the internet was the greatest invention after electricity,but it can be both a blessing and a curse.It all depends on the user.The internet is place you can find people to associate with,make business and personal relationships,it helps with research and so on and so on.
Intimate relationships borne by the net are usually shunned and said to be misguided and sure not to last.It may e true because I am yet to find a web relationship that has lasted more than a year though its probable that there are but the odds are there.I say face to face is the best way to know someone and how genuine they are.
Turning to the hook up websites are taken to be a sign of desperation or just for the fun of it to have different experiences.Its good to be careful though not everyone has good motives.

GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Tired of the routine in boarding school.Wake up,eat,go to class, eat, go to class,sleep.Your mind and body is used to a certain methodical way of doing things that it doesn't know otherwise.You get out of your comfort zone and you think you are doomed.You are more the risk averse type, content with what you've got and don't want to change the way of things.These people don't get very far.Risk takers don't run away from a challenge rather relish it.They want to prove themselves and are usually successful.Don't be afraid to jump you may get a soft landing,after all,the number one question lingers again,'What do you have to lose?'

For better For worse???

For better,for worse,how worse can it get?This thing called love is surely blind,deaf and dumb.Once you get into that zone you think the both of you are indispensable.Has it ever occurred to you that he just wanted to use you like a tissue and flush you? but you still keep coming back up.You heed to all his requests but when the going gets tough you are all alone.
My other once told me that once a guy starts hitting you he will never stop unless you take a stand and show him the door ie; if he didn't convince you to quite your job and be the housewife that's always dependent on him, in that case you pack your bags and children and leave.A woman must always have a plan B,don't be too indulging.
Scottish novelist,Marie Corelli said,"I have never married because there was no need.I have three pets at home that serve the same purpose as a husband;a dog that growls every morning, a parrot that swears all afternoon and  a cat that comes home late at night."

IDLENESS!

This is the ingredient to failure that should be curbed at all costs.It nurture laziness, i try to avoid this and make myself indulge in something worthwhile like reading books where i get my inspiration from.You should be able to have a valid answer to the question that you should be asking yourself at the end of each day,"Did i do anything of importance today?"
Importance is the key word and its relative,everyone has their own interpretation.Let yours be,something that enriches you,that adds value to your life or state of well being.Let not your days just go by.Have a list of goals or accomplishments to attain everyday and make sure you at least cross out one item each day.It gives your direction and that's how more opportunities open up.

UH HUH!

Women have been voiceless and led to believe that our place is several steps behind a man and not next to him.We are called the weaker sex.It may be a mans world but don't be blinded by the mighty influence we hold.

Are you a dead duck?

Many years ago,a wealthy man went duck hunting with a hired hand  named Sam.They took a horse and carriage and along the way a rim came off one of the wheels.As he hammered it back on,he accidentally hit his finger.Instantly he let go with some bad words.He quickly fell on his knees asking Gods forgiveness."Lord,its so difficult at times to live the Christian life,"he prayed.
"Sam,"said the man.'I know you are a Christian,but tell me why you struggle so.I'm an atheist and I dont have problems like that."Sam dint know what to say.Just then two ducks flew overhead.The man raised his gun and two shots rang out."Leave the dead one and go after the wounded bird,"he shouted.Sam pointed out at the duck that was fluttering desperately to escape and said,"I've got an answer for you now,Boss.You said that my Christianity isn't so good because I have to struggle so.Well am the wounded duck and I struggle to get away from the devil.But Boss you are the dead duck.!"
Struggle is ones evidence of Gods work in our lives.Forgiveness of sins is available,so don't despair.Remember dead ducks don't flutter.

Get 'High'

Indulging in something terrifying or illegal,doing something before we die makes juicy tales to tell in the afterlife which is much better than doing cocaine of heroine that destroy your body though they both raise endorphine levels which produce a sense of contentment and result in a pervasive sense of happiness and wellbeing.So you can get 'high' on exercise,'high' on accomplishment(completing challenges).The release of endorphines can also be caused by pain,thats why some people find comfort in tattooing their whole body and piercing anything possible since for the it creates a sense of happiness or wholeness,crazy as it seems.Release of endorphies can also be caused by sex.While it takes an hour of running to bring a rush of endorphines,you can have the same effect with an orgasm and its a lot more fun.Also playing an instrument and eating chili can give you quite the rush so get 'high' constructively please!