Do We Drive Our Men Away?

Do we drive our men away?I think so,Hell.I know so.There are three scenarios.The men who cant stick to one woman(mainly psychological),the men who are in a forced or arranged marriage and the men who are not satisfied with their women.
Its mostly the third case that causes men to stray.The psycho man is more of the cynical type,knowing that its a man's world,they think that they can get away with anything.They may also have been born and bred in that atmosphere where one ain't enough and hence are not wired to be monogamous.
Men in an arranged marriage,typical of some cultures,really don't have a choice,for them straying is a consolaton that their life is not pathetic.
For the third case women play a big role.I will quote the Bible where it says,'Do unto others what you want them to do unto you.'Women should treat their men in a way that will make them stay,make them long to come home to you.Otherwise,you can guess..Don't get me wrong, not all men in this situations are cheats.There are men who genuinely love and cherish their women and don't stray,as the case may be,Love surpasses all and 'For better For worse' is not just for married couples.But there are other men who can't be helped no matter how nice you get.Just ditch them.

Tired Pick up lines and Truly fabulous Turn Downs

My favorite is:
Guy:Where have you been all my life?
Girl:Where I will be for the rest of it,In your wildest dreams.
         Here are other snappy put-downs to tired predictable come-ons.
Guy:How did you get to be so beautiful?
Girl:I must have been given your share.
Guy:Haven't I seen you somewhere before?
Girl:Yes thats why I don't go there anymore.
Guy:Can I buy you a drink?
Girl:Actually I'd rather have the money.
Guy:Hey baby,what's your sign?
Girl:'No Entry'
Guy:Will you go out with me this Saturday?
Girl:Sorry I am having a headache this weekend.
Guy:Your face must turn a few heads.
Girl:And yours must turn a few stomachs.
Guy:I think I could make you very happy.
Girl:Why?Are you leaving?

Beauty over Brains

Laughing and chatting over lunch, a friend of mine suddenly confessed,"I am ugly,I've got sagging breasts and little drooping buttocks but I can still get men.I asked her how she did it.She gave me a straight answer,"Confidence:"she said.Truly beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
There is no greater secret to getting and keeping your man than to be confident.Have your own mind,your own sense of self and your own independence.Be an individual.The Leader not the Led.Have an opinion and don't be afraid to state it and know in you heart and in your mind that you are beautiful no matter who says otherwise.
You look at a guy and a girl together and you wonder,"What was that guy/girl thinking?"We are so quick to judge not knowing that looks,though important are not the be all end all.Having the looks but being a blonde just makes you a trophy as far as men as concerned.

As It Is

I once heard someone saying,"'My child is a glue ear,"I was like, a what?In other words that is a naughty kid who does not listen.We hear very so often parents asking themselves where they went wrong when their kid does not turn out as expected or when they do something stupid.Children don't have a grasp of right or wrong,have little sense of danger and require close parental protection.
Parents have the duty to teach their children to develop moral cocepts for the child to learn what is expected of him/her in different situations.Children are mainly inquisitive and exploratory and some children push boundaries more than others and this may be considered as 'naughty' or 'bad' not knowing that this may be strengths in adulthood.
When caning and grounding does not work as disciplinary measures,we should try a different approach.The child may be communicating something else to you,such as resentment or need for attention.As Fred Gosman said,"The more we shelter children from every disappointment,the more devastating further disappointments will be.

Business Sense

You have this great business idea but the problem is you are not sure where to start.you have very little capital and business skills and only driven by a burning ambition or in other cases sheer desperation.Look within yourself and bring out your talents and hobbies and  exploit them.Start where you are so that you can earn your way to where you want to be.
Don't be like those entrepreneurs who want to start at the finish  line.Be wise and start where you can with whatever money you have,then when you have enough capital you can begin doing what you really want to without having a burden of debt.
The secret to business is to know something nobody else knows.Be courageous and be ready to take the leap and ask yourself,what do you have to loose?

The Worker

I was reading an article titled,'Know your life number.'I was curious to know what this meant.Apparently numerologists have discovered a way that you can know your personality by using your date of birth.I calculated my life number and I turned out to be 'The Worker'.One who gets the job done and has more inner strength than any life number.My guaranteed success lies in shouldering responsibilities and not shying away from tough situations and job shopping and passionate relationships are not meant to suit The Worker.I was thinking that this guy was not far off.
Astrologers and numerologists have studied the stars, moon and planets' position to know when a person was born and know their actions and reactions.One is always tempted to peruse through the zodiac signs and they say something about you that sometimes defines your day.Though this may be and as  far as understanding man goes I believe it is more than that.As much as these revelations may have you pegged just because they touch some aspects of your life,they should not shape your life.You are who you are and not because  Scorpio  or  Virgo  says so.